theres no other way to get those "components" ?

i dont even want it installed because then it install quicktime apple software updater bonjour creates a crap ton of random folders in my music folder and other places its perhaps the biggest bloated pos software ive ever seen oh well forget it im getting an android phone as soon as my ETF comes ...

the whole point of me downloading mediamonkey was so that i DID NOT HAVE TO USE ITUNES

i freaking HATE iTunes

grrrrrrrrrr!

I have:

iPhone 3GS running iOS 4.2.1
Windows 7 Home 64 Bit (On a brand new REFORMAT)
MediaMonkey 3.2.4.1304
do NOT have iTunes installed

MediaMonkey won't detect my iPhone, Windows sees it.

help/ideas?